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Title: Love or Money?Which is more important [Print]
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-1-26 18:37
Title: Love or Money?Which is more important
first of all,this is not a love story and I am not the leading role or main character who is deep in his distress to choose a rich friends or poor one.
I just be reminded that i should be more paintient and begin to fall in love with sb in earnest.
but in fact i dont know,still i didnt find any importance of this love in my life.
comparing to it, work seems can bring more.
no need to worry about your paying will get nothing back to you.
maybe this is too realistic ,but I really think so.

love may waste too much of time and seems too many things to deal with.
what do you think?

(OK,I admit I am not good at love affairs,I just want talk it out and my aim is not to annoy anybody,just want to see your real point)
Author: Shovellee    Time: 2009-1-26 22:53
well, well, well .... I've got way too much to say on this topic. So just wish you the best of luck in the Niu year
Author: BrT    Time: 2009-2-14 22:40
money and work can't replace love,go to find a real love.you will be get more benefit.
Author: 叮叮当当    Time: 2009-2-18 17:46
when you fall in true love , when you find your mr or miss right , i think may be you will change your mind.
Author: Daphen007    Time: 2009-2-19 15:38
Could I choose both of them????
Author: birding    Time: 2009-2-25 16:22
Different answer from different person.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-2-26 22:25
..Your answer is no answer...
Author: PAPA    Time: 2009-3-6 21:26
i choice the second...
the socity is a reality world!!!
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-3-6 22:04
PAPA: i choice the second...
the socity is a reality world!!!
cannt agree you more,I also think it that way
Author: Annie8878    Time: 2009-3-31 20:41
i have worked for four years.now i think bread have more meanings for me.try to believe in love but  do not depand on it.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-3-31 20:47
Annie8878: i have worked for four years.now i think bread have more meanings for me.try to believe in love but  do not depand on it.
I will choose reality
Author: Benny    Time: 2009-4-2 01:58
Ture love is important more than Money.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-4-2 08:56
Benny: Ture love is important more than Money.
what is love?if we dont know the defination,how to recognize its true or fake.
But Reality can be defined.Its clear and exist in everyone's daily life.
More Simple
Author: drakey    Time: 2009-4-5 01:29
Money is more important for most people.
Author: superman    Time: 2009-4-8 11:29
The ancients said,Life is precious,Love is even more,If it is for freedom, which can throw.so i think ture love is important more than Money.at myside.somefriends chose money,and they have been rich but unhappy,somefriends chose love,and theyhave been happy but not rich not poor,maybe a bit hard.i chose love,No love,The world there is no color,i remember a song sing the city is so empty  only because this world wihtout you.
Author: hypo    Time: 2009-4-8 15:55
what love do you need ? how much money do you need? if you lack  bread now ,the most important is money ,after all you must survive,but you have money enough .the most important is love.
Author: Mancy    Time: 2009-4-9 09:46
this is a problem which is puzzling me now.
Author: Summer1022    Time: 2009-4-9 10:07
I also don't know which is more important now,i am puzzled
Author: RachelBear    Time: 2009-4-9 20:24
It depends on the situation that moment.
Author: shamiya    Time: 2009-4-23 22:47
point taken.i saw a movie called "sense  and sensibility".i suppose it is hard to  balance the love and money.yet,i haven't found the one who love me and i love......
Author: catnfish    Time: 2009-4-24 10:59
freedom beats both love and money..
Author: shefdave    Time: 2009-5-4 16:35
We're getting into subjectivity vs objectivity here (whether something is 'felt' or whether something is 'seen' or 'observed') and I suppose everyone is different. I suppose that an answer is always going to be influenced by a) where someone is in their life now, b) what their desires or goals are in life and c) how idealistic they are as a person.

As for me, I am someone who would always take love over money. Of course, I would want to earn enough to live comfortably - I'm in a very fortunate position of being where I want to be at the moment, and in the future. (in love, and enough money to live OK) Perhaps my opinion is a little idealistic because I live in a Western country and I have never really experienced a lack of money in my life - I'd be very interested to hear what people think if they have been through hardships in their lives.
Author: jason12088    Time: 2009-5-4 17:16
shefdave: We're getting into subjectivity vs objectivity here (whether something is 'felt' or whether something is 'seen' or 'observed') and I suppose everyone
we  have a same mind,maybe. i'll consistentiy stick to my opinion,love is noble.  Nature distinction in money.
Author: shefdave    Time: 2009-5-4 17:28
jason12088: we  have a same mind,maybe. i'll consistentiy stick to my opinion,love is noble.  Nature distinction in money.
Yes, definately - love is something subjective (i.e. you feel it - you can't really 'measure' or 'see' it, but you know it's there) and money is something objective. (you either have it, or you don't)

Perhaps one could say that money is what you need to live (in modern society), but love is what makes life worth living.
Author: Cocohao    Time: 2009-5-4 22:40
Annie8878: i have worked for four years.now i think bread have more meanings for me.try to believe in love but  do not depand on it.
yes , I agree. ;-)
Author: Evan    Time: 2009-5-5 00:28
Find your true love when u get ur personal career growth.Believing in urself!
Author: danielrayslee    Time: 2009-5-6 15:13
If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot of people say they are hurt in a relationship and afterward they say they don't believe in true love any more.
The thing is, true love exists, but not every one can be that lucky to experience it.
You know what I mean?
In reality, one cannot have love if he does not have money(a girl is exception, my poor neighbor next door has married a rich man). And one does not necessarily have love if he has money.
Am I using contracting arguments?
Nope!
Three beautiful girls嘉欣,Gon...丽,郭晶...and more
These celebrities all had economic foundations before they married a zillioniare. How are their lives right now?
My answer is, They are living happily ever after.
Some people might say, you don't know the sadness they are hiding.
True, they have their worries, but don't we? We seem to enlarge rich people's sadness and minimize poor people's tortures.
And now look at 唐伯虎,Hans Anderson, they had great talents, but really no girls had their eyes on these two.唐伯虎was so poor( the real one was poor, not like the TV series, that's a lie)that he could not even contribute to the government official stratum cos he had no money to "buy" one official name.Tragedy.No one appreciated Tang's paintings. And as for Hans Anderson, I have already talked about him in one of my blog(if you can spare a minute, you can go and check it out)
Thus, he who is poor is deprived of love, he who is rich can possibly meet with love, and yet he might be married for just his money's sake.
A lot of people really are feeling depressed in this world every day, for divorces, falling out of love, poverty. Remember, true love exists, but if you feel that you have not found it or your other half marry you for your money's sake, admit that not every one is that lucky to experience true love.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-5-6 21:08
danielrayslee: If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot
In fact although I trust bread,still I am happy to know there are peolpe like you who can believe love and who are courage enough to keep on trusting it even they have been hurt badly.
but I,I dont believe love ,especially in a relationship.
If you ask what I trust,I should say the only which can make me feel warm and ease like a light in the dark,is parents love.They give for nothing and ask for no reward.
That is love.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-5-6 21:12
superman: The ancients said,Life is precious,Love is even more,If it is for freedom, which can throw.so i think ture love is important more than Money.at myside
In fact ,money is just a representative for reality,I trust reality.and this wont make me think money is the only important thing in life.Just can not find pure love in reality except parents' love
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-5-6 21:19
shefdave: Yes, definately - love is something subjective (i.e. you feel it - you can't really 'measure' or 'see' it, but you know it's there) and money is somet
You must be very brave or always live a happy life.In fact Money I mentioned here is not the paper we use to buy things or ,it is just a symbol for reality.
Choose money is the same to choose bread.
I trust bread,it can touch,it should be earned by yourself,it is very clear at the very begining that you have the aim to get it.
But love except parents love is always starts with sweet words and close with lies or broken heart.
At least I will not get a broken heart if I choose my bread.
but Choose bread doesnt mean money is the most important thing in life.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-5-6 21:21
Evan: Find your true love when u get ur personal career growth.Believing in urself!
Love and career?
No relationship.
I Know the one I choose in the end will never be the person who are in the same office or field.
I should run away from reality or my career in my spare time only this can make me have enough energy to face my work.
Author: shefdave    Time: 2009-5-6 21:35
beautifulmind: You must be very brave or always live a happy life.In fact Money I mentioned here is not the paper we use to buy things or ,it is just a symbol for re
I think that love is like having something to put on your bread that makes it taste much nicer! If I went through life just eating bread, I wouldn't be very happy. If I had jam on my bread, or honey, or chocolate, or . . . - it would make the bread much nicer and would make it much more worth having.

I stand by the viewpoint that money and love are not mutually exclusive - that is to say, one can have lots of both, none of both, some of both - just because a person is rich doesn't mean they don't have any love, and vice versa.
Author: superman    Time: 2009-5-7 12:26
beautifulmind: In fact ,money is just a representative for reality,I trust reality.and this wont make me think money is the only important thing in life.Just can not
maybe,maybe it's ur idea of deep-rooted.no right,no wrong.The world are relative,not absolute.
Author: jing    Time: 2009-5-7 17:03
If i have love ,then i choose love .if i have money ,of cause i can choose money.Love you have.
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-5-7 17:34
jing: If i have love ,then i choose love .if i have money ,of cause i can choose money.Love you have.
clever!
Author: lover5200    Time: 2009-5-12 19:35
money is very important today but without love human will lose the common language and the world can't go on tomorrow
Author: Otto    Time: 2009-5-24 17:04
both  important
first,we  must  have  money that  can  be  alive
and  if  we  have  without love ,the  life  will  be no  meaning
Author: LoserShawn    Time: 2009-5-27 15:12
true love is really hard to find,but I think that love and money is no contradiction between them.wish you could get both of them.
Author: doudou    Time: 2009-6-9 14:25
haha ,sincerely find your true lover who has lot of money .
Author: Xiao思    Time: 2009-6-9 15:32
There is general discussion today about the issue of love and money.when you meet to your mr.right,your opinion is different~
Author: chinka    Time: 2009-6-17 11:59
In the reality society,bread and love are in the same line.How to choose it depens on your value and opinion.If you own lots of money and love,you're really lucky.but most of us cann't get both of them,so I will choose love in the basis of bread(who can earn the same money with  or above my economy ability)
Author: echo.li    Time: 2009-6-17 16:54
Annie8878: i have worked for four years.now i think bread have more meanings for me.try to believe in love but  do not depand on it.
right!
Author: crazycool    Time: 2009-6-27 16:02
danielrayslee: If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot
nice argument
Author: danielrayslee    Time: 2009-6-29 08:02
crazycool: nice argument
Thanks.
Author: loong    Time: 2009-8-18 09:37
both the are precious,make no difference
Author: leedaxun    Time: 2009-8-18 10:15
to girls, it's best to marry a rich guy who loves u.
to boys, if u dont have enough money, be careful to touch love, say nothing of marriage.
omg, how realistic i am
Author: wy进行时    Time: 2009-8-18 22:37
Everything you shoud conside the level of it ,if the level is lavish,then the thing is not good for you ,above all. the level is the most thing you should conside
Author: chinaabel    Time: 2009-8-18 23:40
danielrayslee: If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot
excellent comment
Author: LobyEina    Time: 2009-8-19 08:58
to sum   up, both are essential,and without anyone ,people can't seize the worthable life...we should keep balance, firstly you must find a reliable job,,meaningful life goal,,then taste a true love with your heart.. in the end ,remide you ''no fake.no lie. '' don't waste time playing a relationship
Author: gausslee    Time: 2009-8-19 15:26
they r both important! but it depends on the phase of your life.When you r young, I think，we should have focused on the job or your career.As a man, clear up your eyes and you could gain the true love with the time  gone by. When you have a family, I think money can shrink to the backboard and love is more important!
Author: gausslee    Time: 2009-8-19 15:30
by the way, today, love I think is , to some extent, based on the money! no girls are willing to marry a poor in rags, vice versa. Money is the substantial base of love. No money, love is pointless! you can not eat love to live your life.
Author: 秀一    Time: 2009-8-19 21:06
money can eat but love cannot.
money isn't everything,but I love it.
Author: LunaDEJ    Time: 2009-8-23 09:38
When you possess large fortune,you may don't need true love.Maybe you think my viewpoint is so preposterous,but to my mind,as a matter of fact,true love is just a emotional tool,it just brings you some consolation and warmth when you are hurt in the reality.you need it because you are vulnerable in the reality.But as soon as you are strong and rich enough,true love appears to lose its charm and basic meanings.

All in all,money is more important than true love which is just used to satisify your emotional desire .
Author: humour_boy    Time: 2009-8-23 13:20
In life,we have a lot of tough choices among which one of the most tough choices is the choice of love and money. On this issue,everyone has their own views.Compared with the love ,some people may argue that  money is more important.They think that the love will appear automatically if you have a great many of money.
But I assume that more people shall support the opposite view.As far as I am concerned,I agree with the latter.First,love is necessary in our life that in a sense without it our life is the most failure.You can ask the person who give up the love for money if they are happy now. Secondly,the love is a beautiful flower in full bloom in our life and with it we possess a colourful life.However,if we possess great wealth but without love we will feel loneliness,helpleness and emptiness even thouth we can obtain any things without feelings with such a great many of money.Finally,I suppose that we certainly can get both the true love and money for we can learn from each other ,encourage and help mutually and work hard to make much money as well as improve living conditions.Is this not a good life that  everyone of us aspire for?  
As I am concerned,I think that love is far more important than money.
Author: cjtanime    Time: 2009-8-23 16:10
You know most people have troble in choosing between money and love.The people has bocome more and more realisic because of the social development.If you have no troble in meterial life,I think love is more important.However true love is uneasy to find.Yet, I agree with beautifulmind's opinion parients love is the only one I believe.So in my opinion parients are more improtant than wife.I know it could be a little extreme but that's what I really think.
Author: livane    Time: 2009-8-23 21:01
Daphen007: Could I choose both of them????
the same feeling...
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-8-24 13:20
chinka: In the reality society,bread and love are in the same line.How to choose it depens on your value and opinion.If you own lots of money and love,you're
You must be a girl.Yea,wise people will take the same desicion like you~
Author: beautifulmind    Time: 2009-8-24 13:31
humour_boy: In life,we have a lot of tough choices among which one of the most tough choices is the choice of love and money. On this issue,everyone has their own
I think love should not be treated like a shrine,your options give me a sense like a pure theory article.In fact I dont encourage people treat love in a very short sight.We always confort ourselves that the rich people often live a lonely life without love.But how can we konw?we just want to use this to feel better.Love can mean parents love,friends'love or soul mates love or even a love for no reason at first sight.those love,of course is wonderful and beautiful and I think everyone has it.but what we can do to those love often forces us to do some decision.sometimes you choose the bread just because you want to survive better and live a better life which means you can have the ability to reward those love in the future.We sometimes should also learn how to "feedback" to others love.That's maybe one course in our life.To make the loved ones live a better life together with you.
Author: TinaHo    Time: 2009-9-1 01:12
i cant agree more with u, i think i am realism. Money is very important in our life and dont tell me that it cant bring us love and friendship these kinds of stuff. It does have its own point. But i want to show all of u one example, when the financial crisis came, many couples broke up at that time and the reason for that is about the money thing. We can see that love can disappear without money.

i am not saying that money is very very important but it's really essential for us. It's the foundation of our life. Society becomes more and more realistic, so do our people.
Author: 　　：亽物    Time: 2009-9-1 14:19
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Author: boostbob    Time: 2009-9-1 19:35
money, i u have no money, u will lose the base of ur love.
Author: goon    Time: 2009-9-9 15:48
Summer1022: I also don't know which is more important now,i am puzzled
it is the same to me !



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