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Title: Should girl spend her boyfriend's money? [Print]

Author: fleaf Time: 2009-9-27 16:35
Title: Should girl spend her boyfriend's money?
They love each other, but not get marry.The girl just resigned her job, she doesn't plan to find a new job at present. She wants to spend her time on learning english, so...............Why not ask money for her parents? She can't ! She is not a kid any more , she is adult and have the ability to feed herself. 'Never let them down and don't to be the burden of my family" ,she told herself after graduated from the university. After stroved for two years, she quit the job, she loves english so much that she wants to find a job about english. But now her english is not professional any more, she forgot most of it . It's not a easy thing to pick it up. she has to spend most of her time on it . The problem is she has no money.
Yes, that girl is me. I feel confuse evey day.This situation continued till now, my boyfriend say nothing about this, but I can't stand any more, love and money are two kind of diffrent things. Who can help me? Make me not so confuse.
Accept it or refuse it , give me some advices, thanks!

Author: daisy_jin Time: 2009-9-27 16:45
don't feel so depressed about that. you can accept it but remember not to do so for a long time. as long as you find a job, you should depend on yourself. if you really feel upset, you can make a record and pay the money back

Author: Robin-Wang Time: 2009-9-28 08:56
Love means help and take care of each other.

Author: venus Time: 2009-9-28 08:58
I think it depends on the current relationship between you and your bf. If it is stable , you can accept some and let him help you to go though hard time. The most important thing is not showing the undue dependence. Besides, according to my opinion, it is safer to borrow money from parents than from bf. The parental love is most selfless~

Author: Mamba Time: 2009-9-29 15:32
some girls nowadays,dating with some boys,just for their money not out of the true love i think. And similarly,some guys don't care whether his gf really love him but for some fun.My point is if you two deeply fall in love with each other,the money'll no big deal.You have responsibility to take a good care of your lover,right?! So don't feel bewildered whether you should accept his help,especially in such dreadful plight. Puting yourself in his shoes,you'll also support him,won't you?!

Author: fleaf Time: 2009-10-2 06:50

daisy_jin: don't feel so depressed about that. you can accept it but remember not to do so for a long time. as long as you find a job, you should depend on yours

Yes ,After the New year, I will find a new job. Anyway , I am a independent girl, hehe .thanks a lot.

Author: fleaf Time: 2009-10-2 06:52

Robin-Wang: Love means help and take care of each other.

I agree with your opinion. Thanks

Author: fleaf Time: 2009-10-2 07:08

venus: I think it depends on the current relationship between you and your bf. If it is stable , you can accept some and let him help you to go though hard t

I am from a single parents family, my father is a farmer, and my younger brother is still in school.Everytime I met troubles ,I never try to ask help for my family. Adult shouldn't to be the burden of the family. Am i right? hehe..... Nothing can knock me down.

Thanks very much.

Author: fleaf Time: 2009-10-2 07:10

Mamba: some girls nowadays,dating with some boys,just for their money not out of the true love i think. And similarly,some guys don't care whether his gf rea

Is that true?? hehe I will try to suit for it . Thanks for your suggestion!

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