What did you do when you are gloomy?

wickers

vinner: I used to have this kind of irritancy.When it comes, i tell myself:" It won't be long. It's only temporary."  I think it makes me improve an

Absolutly, but once confront the similar situation, I become pessimistic again.

vinner

I understand.Try to talk to friends or families, if you want.
Always remember that you are not alone.

wickers

vinner: I understand.Try to talk to friends or families, if you want.
Always remember that you are not alone.

Family is a warm harbour,forever. Though having lived for so many years, though I thought I was mature enough,  I am always a child in front of family. You are right, I am not alone.Thank you!

sunnyv

I remember when I was young, my mother brought me aside and told me "Don't rely on others for help on your own troubles or you will never jump out of your troubles". Today looking back at this advice, I found it partly true and partly incorrect. Friends have been great help and a source of comfort and help, but in many situations, I had to rely on myself to tackle my crises. Family is not always the best resort because  often there are personal secrets we can't tell our family tends to over simplfy a crises. By the way, is "irritancy" a new English word? Where you found it used? I never seen it before.

wickers

sunnyv: I remember when I was young, my mother brought me aside and told me "Don't rely on others for help on your own troubles or you will never jump ou

I hardly bother the friends with my own troubles, especially mental ones. Maybe I don't really have friends.
"irritancy" was a new English word for me either, bur not now.

qinsan678

i do am in such a situation.i am looking for something else that i am really interseted but i never had try before.like badminton man-made art and so on...it can ease your gloomy and shift your attention on your mood.