are you used to keeping your QQ visible or invisible

viggie

GXYeats: invisible. Just to avoid trifling conversation.

everytime when i am on line, i can't help thinking how many people are there with me who don't want to show up, being invisible bestows them the initiative of conversation, that's totally unfair

GXYeats

viggie: everytime when i am on line, i can't help thinking how many people are there with me who don't want to show up, being invisible bestows them the initi

Why?
Suppose in your eyes it's fair to be all online visibly, then those unwilling to start a certain conversation will be forced to say something, at least an apology, or a declination; it's unfair to them.
Therefore it's fair for every one to express their demand by choosing between visibility and invisibility; every one voices his own intention without intruding others' freedom and autonomy.

viggie

GXYeats: Why?
Suppose in your eyes it's fair to be all online visibly, then those unwilling to start a certain conversation will be forced to say something, at

well that sounds reasonable,but i think at least you should let me know whether you are there or not, if i speak to you ,you don't respond, that's no big deal

catnfish

It varies from time to time! LOL~

heai88

touringchina: I always keep my QQ online status to be visible(i am free),cos my QQ icon is a national flag of Russian,.it looks like flag when it is bright,otherwis

guy,why you use russian flag as QQ icon?As a real chinese,I just would like to see chinese flag bright forever,,,

Phoebegong

It's depends .Sometime I'll keep my QQ with online state ,if I want to chat with my friends . If I don't want to chat I willkeep it invisible .