Do you love your family?

julyfancy

hey,guys:
my  mom and dad had a big fight today.When the fight were happening,i felt that i wanted to burst out,burst out all my emotions,i got so much words to say ,esp to my dad,i can even shout to him.But,i failed,i cared about both of them,i didn't want to hurt any of them,my tears just kept running down my cheeks.And all i did,finally,was to drive my dad out of the room and locked the door.
Although,hatred filled me time to time,it would faded away soon,it's really hard to hate the people you love,and also if you doyou will hate them more deeper.
have this kind of dillema occured in you?

秀一

when I was young I always get angry with them if they said something that I don't want to hear.Sometimes I refuse to talk to them for several days.But now I think I have enough patience to take in every word they say,and I don't quarrel with them any more.I believe every parents love their child.Even if they have words with you,just because they care about you.I love my parents,they are the most important person in my life.

monkeylinstar

i think you can write a letter to your father to express your words and you must pay attention to your attitude when writting it.

fionay

when i was young,I wrote a letter to my father after he quarrelled with my mother,I told him my thoughts and so on.He didn't answer my letter,but they didn't  quarrel any more  . I know they love me deeply,they don't want me get hurt.now I'm 19 years old .in the few years ,i often talk to my parents,we are good friends.so i suggest you to talk with your parents esp your mother ,i think you will help them solve the problem.

livane

I hv the same feeling with u, the helpless, the depression and the anger  all the feeling pour into my heart,i wanna run away from home, however, when i witness their happy and harmonious life, i feel more joy than i can express by words. they can easily change my emotion,because we r famliy , because i love them.