If your best friend conceal some personal things from you?....

monkeylinstar

If your friend conceal some personal things from you and you find it. what will you do?  Question about it or pretend that you didn't know it or give him/her a slight hint to let him/her tell you? or some other opinions?
maybe this is a topic about whether share everything with your best friend or not.

Jenny7

Everyone needs privacy and keeps some secrects to himself. It's ok that my best friends conceal her personal things from me. She needs some personal space. vice verse, I will keep something in mind if I think there is no need to tell her~

LunaDEJ

I will choose not to ask and pretend that i don't know.Because everyone needs to keep their own privacies deep in themselves.If their privacies are not about me which means that those secrets are not aiming at me,i won't probe them owing to avoiding some unnecessary hurt and discredit.
Furthermore,as a rule,it is not polite to ask others' privacies notwithstanding they are our friends.

julyfancy

it's ok to hold some personal stuff to oneself,i can understand,who can say he/she has no secrets...sometimes we don't share something with bosom friends is not we don't love them or trust them,most of time,it is that we don't feel easy to open our wounds or anything.i think understanding between friends is also very very important...if you two are real friends,i guess you will know why she/he don't choose to tell you...and then you can make the choice based on that.you will know which way is best for your friends...ask or prentend~~that's your choice

leedaxun

it's not necessary to share everything with friends, even the best ones.  everyone needs  to keep his own little secrets.
my opinion

Mamba

As best friends we definitely should be open with each other,but such situations are also constrained under some special circumstances.Maybe she/he just wanna weather the plight on his own rather than put us into the mire of anxieties  and misgivings. Or there's some words she/he really can't say even it is not easy for them to keep from us,on this occasion we should better understand and support them. Thus,pretending wuold be a wise choice in case of any hurtfulness to our friendship.

monkeylinstar

Jenny7: Everyone needs privacy and keeps some secrects to himself. It's ok that my best friends conceal her personal things from me. She needs some personal s

what kind of things do you think that are no need to talk to your best friend?

monkeylinstar

LunaDEJ: I will choose not to ask and pretend that i don't know.Because everyone needs to keep their own privacies deep in themselves.If their privacies are no

don't you feel hurt when you find your best friend conceal sth.? would you lile to share everything with your best friend?

monkeylinstar

julyfancy: it's ok to hold some personal stuff to oneself,i can understand,who can say he/she has no secrets...sometimes we don't share something with bosom frie

yes, i must understand my friends. I don't know why she didn't tell me that, but i really hurt by this thing. and i knew it from other people.
i want to mention that  i think i don't have secrets and i tell every secret to my best friend.

monkeylinstar

leedaxun: it's not necessary to share everything with friends, even the best ones.  everyone needs  to keep his own little secrets.
my opinion

little secret? such as what?