Will you marry me?

crazycool

For girls,

If your boyfriend doesn't afford to buy a house/apartment in the minimum of next 10yrs, will u still marry him? (Assume everyone around you think you shouldn't)


For boys,
If you are the boyfriend in the above scenario, will u propose?

catnfish

As a girl, I'd like to say it depends on how much I love him

I won't say that every girl has a little abacus that she counts every tiny thing in her relationship, but on this account girls will definitely weigh the pros and cons. ~

As for me, if he lets me have my fav snacks on our bed while watching girl's type movie with me and give me sweet kisses just at the right time, ignoring craps of biscuts in my mouth, I probably say yes ~

he's already more of a husband to me in such a case~

crazycool

catnfish: As a girl, I'd like to say it depends on how much I love him

I won't say that every girl has a little abacus that she counts every tiny thing in he

"a little abacus"  LOL      is every girl a talent accountant?i read some of your blog i find that you like travelling

so if u really love your BF, but marring him means you have to give up a lot
for instance, you favorite travelling.   
and after the marriage, u will gradually find that you've given up  far more than you expected,  and  u may possibly find that you don't love him as much as before

after all, love cannot last too long, but you always have to face the practial problem

catnfish

crazycool: "a little abacus"  LOL      is every girl a talent accountant?i read some of your blog i find that you like travelling

so if u reall

hmm why do I have to give up traveling? I mean we can travel somewhere close. For what I'm looking for in trips are still the same that won't change. If I go somewhere near (even just in BJ, taking a bus trip around the city with him, I still find something new and away from home)~ there are always alternatives.

it seems that you'd love to hear negative comments such as I can't marry him for he can't afford a house for us...~ ha~

spaceone

it's hard to say about these Q ~~as for me~ it's still too far away,but if i love him more than myself...i think i will marry him..if we love each other ,we can lay siege to it together~~

crazycool

catnfish: hmm why do I have to give up traveling? I mean we can travel somewhere close. For what I'm looking for in trips are still the same that won't change.

i don't think i'm seeking  the negative comments, coz i'm also a guy cannot afford a house.  maybe, i want to prove that people are getting more realistic, material or snobbish  than they used to be

i anticipated that most of the relies would say "yes if i really love him"
people like you answer yes, only in the hypothesis of   "if i really love him"
but, in my opinion, this is the most difficult thing.

i should mention, i didn't say you have to give up travelling. that was just an example. what i meant was you need to sacrifice things like, instead of traveling oversea, you can only travel nearby

crazycool

spaceone: it's hard to say about these Q ~~as for me~ it's still too far away,but if i love him more than myself...i think i will marry him..if we love each oth

i understand, but you have to find a person that you love more than yourself

spaceone

crazycool: i understand, but you have to find a person that you love more than yourself

it's very difficulty for me to find a personal and love him more than myself.. hah~~because i always can not take care of someone or     
myself ~~so failure.......

crazycool

spaceone: it's very difficulty for me to find a personal and love him more than myself.. hah~~because i always can not take care of someone or     
myself ~~so

then  find someone can take care of you

spaceone

crazycool: then  find someone can take care of you

no~~i  have to learn how to take care of myself~~