To find a real friend

huckabee

Friendship is one soul abiding in two bodies, as the old philosopher says. One cannot be too critical in selection of a friend to be. Prepare to make concessions or even sacrifices if one really wants to find a real friend.

fairy0612

It's hard for me too, once I thought I have found her, but later I found myself wrong...

cl381924577

Friendship,I had it once, I lost it by a quarrel.I often think whether it will come back .I finally konw it's impossible.What a beauty dream.

Cilla

The key to make friends is to be sincere to others. Real friend can be few, but if you treat others sincerely, you will be treated equally~

windhearer

ytjf: yes,i think to find a real friend is hard to me .

Have the same feeling

windhearer

huckabee: Friendship is one soul abiding in two bodies, as the old philosopher says. One cannot be too critical in selection of a friend to be. Prepare to make

I am in complete agreement with you

windhearer

fairy0612: It's hard for me too, once I thought I have found her, but later I found myself wrong...

Maybe what you experienced is sth. I did

windhearer

cl381924577: Friendship,I had it once, I lost it by a quarrel.I often think whether it will come back .I finally konw it's impossible.What a beauty dream.

Because of a quarrel you lost a friend , who i think is not a real friend .

sunnyv

Yes, it is indeed hard to find a friend who can talk frankly heart to heart without condition, competition or selfishness. They want to know all about you but they are distrustful in letting you know what is in their heart. I wonder why can't people talk and discuss personal problems in depth. Both will benefit because things seen from a different angle can have different result. There is a chinese saying, "the bystanders see things more clear" Looking back, I found I benefitted a lot from support from friends, but nowadays the friends are only interested in what you can offer to them. It is indeed pitiful and if it goes on like this people would be driven to the extreme and can't enjoy normal happy life. So let us offer a helping hand to others who need it. United we stand, divided we fall.

sunnyv

fairy0612: what you said is exactly correct. Nowadays people all have a selfish thought, if they can benefit from you, they call you friends, once they cannot an

True, that is what I observed too. Glad to know that you have the same experience, so I can say this situation is getting common. Indeed a pity. People are programmed to need others and if this goes on, it will be sad for many.