Why do we feel sad when we lose the one we love?

danielrayslee

Why do we feel sad when we lose the one we love?
为什么失去了心爱的人后，我们会伤心？

Can you give me your views?

Jessica826

Because you really love or have loved him/her. If you have had no love at all, you will never be sad.

iamlilijie

because we cant forget everything between us ,and every time we r reminded of when we see the similar scene

Alice666

Because you don't wanna let it go ! It is not the fact (that your beloved one has left) hurting you badly, it is you (who choose to stay in lost and sadness) hurting yourself. Things have no meaning until you put on your own judgement.
&quotain results from a judgment you have made about a thing. Remove the judgment and the pain disappears."

v87zhou

I admit that when we lost the one we love , we can go sad. In my opinion, we can't be together with lover. It's the destiny.

loong

because love is sophicated things,

sunnyv

To be honest, we are all born to be possesive and selfish. That is the way nature want us to be. Once we have deep love for a person, we will want to have him/her to ourselves only. When we are deep in love, we are two-in-one and share everything. However, we are still two individuals and there is no guarantee that love is for life. Once we lose our partner, everything goes with it. We will feel lost and missing someone in our life. Some say there is no endless party under the sky, so separation is indeed painful but sometimes inevitable. My philosophy is don't fall in love if you are not sure about your partner. Love should be forever. When people get married, they vow to love each other for life and "till death we part". How many people can keep this promise?

lingfangsong

Because our heart have already lost or you really loved him or her before you didn't broke up.

youthy

Let alone us humans, even an animal has emotions. If we won't be sad when losing our love, how can we be called a human?! The heart is made of flesh and blood but not iron. That's the very reason.

Joycehan

it is really a confusing question, since it is rather hard to talk about love. besides, sometimes people part not because they don't love each other, but they have to be apart.
why we feel sad? i think it is the human nature and our instinct.

jing

because that's you love what use your heart to love,when you lost your love ,and you lost your heart!Do you know that's feeling?