If your best friend conceal some personal things from you?....

monkeylinstar

If your friend conceal some personal things from you and you find it. what will you do?  Question about it or pretend that you didn't know it or give him/her a slight hint to let him/her tell you? or some other opinions?
maybe this is a topic about whether share everything with your best friend or not.

chengzi89

I think you gotta respect your friend's choice,everyone has secrets

TinaHo

monkeylinstar: you mean we cannot totally trust our friends? I think I will be tired if there is no one I can trust.

But in our real life, r u very sure that u have a friend that u can really trust and keep no secret to him or her?

monkeylinstar

TinaHo: i think i will give him or her a slight hint to let he/she tell me. If they dont, i will not keep asking and just take it easy.
In my opinion, i think

you mean we cannot totally trust our friends? I think I will be tired if there is no one I can trust.

monkeylinstar

Jenny7: Such as some bothers I meet in study and work. My friend may not help me handle all this and I tell her just to bother her as well.

but my friends often helped me in study when  i was in high school.

neves

some friends want you can tell him everthing about u,but other may focus on your future but not foretime.not just friends,even if us,i think we all should see the tomorrow.

TinaHo

i think i will give him or her a slight hint to let he/she tell me. If they dont, i will not keep asking and just take it easy.
In my opinion, i think we cant share everything with friends cos' everyone could be ur friend or enemy, and u wont know that he or she is ur friend or not in the next minute.

LunaDEJ

monkeylinstar: don't you feel hurt when you find your best friend conceal sth.? would you lile to share everything with your best friend?

I think it is ok to remain a kind of sense of "mystery" between my friend and me.That will reinforce our friendship^^(Personal opinion,just for reference)

Jenny7

monkeylinstar: what kind of things do you think that are no need to talk to your best friend?

Such as some bothers I meet in study and work. My friend may not help me handle all this and I tell her just to bother her as well.

monkeylinstar

leedaxun: it's not necessary to share everything with friends, even the best ones.  everyone needs  to keep his own little secrets.
my opinion

little secret? such as what?

monkeylinstar

julyfancy: it's ok to hold some personal stuff to oneself,i can understand,who can say he/she has no secrets...sometimes we don't share something with bosom frie

yes, i must understand my friends. I don't know why she didn't tell me that, but i really hurt by this thing. and i knew it from other people.
i want to mention that  i think i don't have secrets and i tell every secret to my best friend.