It is easier said than done

Mamba

When you are dating with your boyfriend or girlfriend and specially doing some relatively intimate deeds, have you ever imagined what it was like he or she did such things with ex-gf or ex-bf?
For myself, i do care about it as i'm a single-minded and one-boy girl, out of which i become more and more sensitive and sentimental facing my special one, who is my first love but i'm not his. Even he told me his so-called puppy-love is not a true love but an impulse of puberty, i still feel bad in the heart. Besides, i'm bound to believe he'll never cheat on me and hurt me, but which seems not enough to let me shed the shadow of his past. I'm really exhausted and sometimes hate myself like this. Am i obstinate or narrow-minded?
After a long time of contemplation, i could only console myself that being naive and infantile, everyone is more or less destined to have a bout of history avoids being mentioned concealed in their inner world. Maybe this is really a truth, on the grounds of which, for me at present what i should do is just to look forward ,cherich everything i have, and don't let the past hold me back. However, it is easier said than done.

My dear friends, are you wiling to give your suggestions and advice to me? And if  you have a same experience,Would you mind sharing with us?

leedaxun

i'm a single-minded and one-girl boy
is it out?

jacky.

leedaxun: i'm a single-minded and one-girl boy
is it out?

the world full of insincerity people ，that in？


mamba，why you to be with him，because the love
what is the love，believe is the most important。

Mamba

leedaxun: i'm a single-minded and one-girl boy
is it out?

You're very humorous,huh?!

Mamba

jacky.:the world full of insincerity people ，that in？


mamba，why you to be with him，because the love
what is the love，believe is the most important。

Yeah,i know distrust is poison to love. We do deeply love each other and always be faithful and loyal. But i still feel it's so difficult to control myself and i can't help thinking about anything whether happened or not.

jacky.

did he still mention his ex-gf?
did he still contact with his ex-gf?

i think you are too sensitivity,that can drive you mud.
it harm to both of you.
being a greathearted guy and go on a amid fire and thunder love with ur Mr R.

Mamba

jacky.: did he still mention his ex-gf?
did he still contact with his ex-gf?

i think you are too sensitivity,that can drive you mud.
it harm to both of you.

No，she has disappeared in his life forever.But it is me that care about the memories belonged to them. I'm so sick of myself.

jacky.

puppy-love isn't love,i feel it just like friendship,some specially doing some relatively intimate deeds is impulse,because that they are too young to hold.
relax,cherish ur love if you indeed love him

Mamba

jacky.: puppy-love isn't love,i feel it just like friendship,some specially doing some relatively intimate deeds is impulse,because that they are too young to

Thanks a lot. Your words comfort me to a large extent.

jacky.

i just say the truth,i didn't comfort you
wish ur happiness with him