Are you for or against campus love?

linyin870809

sddzzqq: Are you a college student? I was not sure if compus love is necessary when was a college student. But now as a poststudent in some normal college wher

i think school love is very important,to now university students,love is a part of life. it's a kind of art,and so on.if you don't have a  BF,you will not grow normally.you will be a geek.A bf is under you ,you have a feeling that you are the center of the world .i'm positive about that.

sddzzqq

linyin870809: i think school love is very important,to now university students,love is a part of life. it's a kind of art,and so on.if you don't have a  BF,you will

There must be loss after gain.  If break up, you must be hurt terribly , especially when a relation you are the most happy one.

ashley0707

sddzzqq: There must be loss after gain.  If break up, you must be hurt terribly , especially when a relation you are the most happy one.

It's like climbing high and jumping off,heart-breaking.
What we can improve is to be more tolerate and rational when doing relationships.

lijiaqi

As for me ,
The highschool love is pure.
but in campus,the love becomes dirty.
it becomes a kind of sexual relationship.
people wants to win girl's heart for intercouse without the true love.
on the other hand,money plays a key role in the campus and money makes love dirty.
And now,i 'm a sophomore, i can't find the strong feeling about love at all.
so,I am against the campus love.

ashley0707

lijiaqi: As for me ,
The highschool love is pure.
but in campus,the love becomes dirty.
it becomes a kind of sexual relationship.
people wants to win girl's he

I agree when you say high school love is pure.That's for sure.
Campus love really has something defective as what you said.
But do you think it's purer than love after we work?

lijiaqi

i don't know~

i don't know. i think when we go out into the society

, anythink will be changed include love.

But on the other hand, Do you believe in marriage?

Do you trust in someone who will stay with you during whole the lifetime?

In campus,some people hold the opinion that we just play with each other in the campus time.people don't care the future of them, it will be over, four years later.

ashley0707

lijiaqi: i don't know~

i don't know. i think when we go out into the society

, anythink will be changed include love.

But on the other hand, Do you

When it comes to relationship or marriage, trust is rather important.
Only when two people belive in their emotions, when they have the same faith for marriage can they be happy  in their life.
Trust yourself, trust your lover, trust your spouse...when you trust,you have expectations,which will make you happy after it's fullfilled

W.Alan

If I haven't fell in love with my present GF,who is one of my high shcool classmates,I will not choose campus love.To maintain love relationship,large mutual investments of time and energy is necessary.However,we have many more important and valuable things to do in the perspective of future life in college life during which we are most energetic and creative.If a backway were available,I would choose to remain single.

ashley0707

W.Alan: If I haven't fell in love with my present GF,who is one of my high shcool classmates,I will not choose campus love.To maintain love relationship,large

May I interpret it as you're tired for all the investment in your relationship?
Does pain weigh out happiness? Especially for distant relationship, I'm wondering.
If  you are in the same place, will things become different?

W.Alan

I'm not driving at that the investment or the long-distance relationship causes some pain.If any,it is happiness that out-weigh some sort of pain.What I mean is that we have more important things to do and campus love may be adverse to that goal because it inevitably distracts our vim.