Love or Money?Which is more important

catnfish

freedom beats both love and money..

shefdave

We're getting into subjectivity vs objectivity here (whether something is 'felt' or whether something is 'seen' or 'observed') and I suppose everyone is different. I suppose that an answer is always going to be influenced by a) where someone is in their life now, b) what their desires or goals are in life and c) how idealistic they are as a person.

As for me, I am someone who would always take love over money. Of course, I would want to earn enough to live comfortably - I'm in a very fortunate position of being where I want to be at the moment, and in the future. (in love, and enough money to live OK) Perhaps my opinion is a little idealistic because I live in a Western country and I have never really experienced a lack of money in my life - I'd be very interested to hear what people think if they have been through hardships in their lives.

jason12088

shefdave: We're getting into subjectivity vs objectivity here (whether something is 'felt' or whether something is 'seen' or 'observed') and I suppose everyone

we  have a same mind,maybe. i'll consistentiy stick to my opinion,love is noble.  Nature distinction in money.

shefdave

jason12088: we  have a same mind,maybe. i'll consistentiy stick to my opinion,love is noble.  Nature distinction in money.

Yes, definately - love is something subjective (i.e. you feel it - you can't really 'measure' or 'see' it, but you know it's there) and money is something objective. (you either have it, or you don't)

Perhaps one could say that money is what you need to live (in modern society), but love is what makes life worth living.

Cocohao

Annie8878: i have worked for four years.now i think bread have more meanings for me.try to believe in love but  do not depand on it.

yes , I agree. ;-)

Evan

Find your true love when u get ur personal career growth.Believing in urself!

danielrayslee

If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot of people say they are hurt in a relationship and afterward they say they don't believe in true love any more.
The thing is, true love exists, but not every one can be that lucky to experience it.
You know what I mean?
In reality, one cannot have love if he does not have money(a girl is exception, my poor neighbor next door has married a rich man). And one does not necessarily have love if he has money.
Am I using contracting arguments?
Nope!
Three beautiful girls嘉欣,Gon...丽,郭晶...and more
These celebrities all had economic foundations before they married a zillioniare. How are their lives right now?
My answer is, They are living happily ever after.
Some people might say, you don't know the sadness they are hiding.
True, they have their worries, but don't we? We seem to enlarge rich people's sadness and minimize poor people's tortures.
And now look at 唐伯虎,Hans Anderson, they had great talents, but really no girls had their eyes on these two.唐伯虎was so poor( the real one was poor, not like the TV series, that's a lie)that he could not even contribute to the government official stratum cos he had no money to "buy" one official name.Tragedy.No one appreciated Tang's paintings. And as for Hans Anderson, I have already talked about him in one of my blog(if you can spare a minute, you can go and check it out)
Thus, he who is poor is deprived of love, he who is rich can possibly meet with love, and yet he might be married for just his money's sake.
A lot of people really are feeling depressed in this world every day, for divorces, falling out of love, poverty. Remember, true love exists, but if you feel that you have not found it or your other half marry you for your money's sake, admit that not every one is that lucky to experience true love.

beautifulmind

danielrayslee: If I had to choose one between these two, I would choose love. cos I believe true love exists. And this choice is only for my wishful thinking.
A lot

In fact although I trust bread,still I am happy to know there are peolpe like you who can believe love and who are courage enough to keep on trusting it even they have been hurt badly.
but I,I dont believe love ,especially in a relationship.
If you ask what I trust,I should say the only which can make me feel warm and ease like a light in the dark,is parents love.They give for nothing and ask for no reward.
That is love.

beautifulmind

superman: The ancients said,Life is precious,Love is even more,If it is for freedom, which can throw.so i think ture love is important more than Money.at myside

In fact ,money is just a representative for reality,I trust reality.and this wont make me think money is the only important thing in life.Just can not find pure love in reality except parents' love