The family or the love, which one will you choose?

hengryzhu

the question is olny found in our country,in the modern times ,it is not happened in developed country.our parents 's idea have not keep up the development of times.

SharonYin

If it must be choosed , I will choose my family. I believe my parents love me and what they want just I can get happiness.They have experienc, and they know what is my match. Maybe just now I like someone, time goes by, I will found he is not my shoes. The parents will not hurt you, if you insist you must go with someone, they can understand at last, the premise is the guy really be worthy of trusting. I don't stand departing from my parents because of a man. Now I live in another city without my husband, but I am very happy, because he love me , his parents and mine love me. Having parents love and support we will go to the end.

Frodo

i  lose the relationship of my ex-girlfriend,cuz we are not the same province .i am confused her parents agree us together when they first see me .but she told me her parents don.t agree two months ago ,i  persuade her several times 。her heart is so cold i can't melt

kinzhang

family ,undoubted...nothing si more vital for me but to be with family ,someone always find out the cherished thing after do something wrong ,try to think a little  while ,who always took cared of you and be with you so long when you from a kid to a adult

ScorchingSun

Family should be filled with love,or it's nothing but a house filled with strangers.

pheidippides

In my opinion, it depends on situation.If you love your family
better than your BF or GF, you should depart him or her.
If you love your BF or GF better than your family. You should keep love until the end.To be honest ,it is difficult to make a decision.

Raphael

family family family ...no more love

freddy24

If you get marry with your GF\BF, then you are a family now!

moonhunglee

You need to ask yourself ,Why you go out of your home town to find a boyfriend or girlfriend ? Many people
have to do so for they are working in the same city , if you move to other city that your partner are working in just for love,  you need to be very familiar with her(him) ,and you need to think about if it deserves,  if your family oppose you,
you need to ask why they oppose you , when you get all the
informations , it is upon your self to make a decision, no body can help you.