How to say "no" to others?

silvia2011

sometimes you need to say "no" to others, not because you are not willing to help them, but every one has his own habit. just like this, you are not used at sharing food with others with the only one spoon, but what if someone ask for it? if he is your classmate, roommate, even your close friend, what will you do?

xkljacky

You don't need to say no,you can express your true feeling by adding a spoon, other people will know you are mind this.

Haiena

There are so many infectious disease these days, how can we share the spoon with others? We can only share within our family. You can suggest it is more healthy to stop using a single spoon.

gossip

i am the good people,everytime i find it is hard to say no to others ,but sometimes i am very confused ,they rely on me too much ,i do not how to do it

lh_vicky

yeah,i think if someone bother you when you are concentrating on something and the thing is out of your ability ,you can say no to somebody.we must learn how to say no in our life ,after all we are no a perfect person !

linda@crab

actually i don't like this manner,especially diat manner!
we all know everyone has different behavior, when 2 get toghter, stand and endure others' speaking, living way on the base of keeping our own characteristics. if u are close friends, lots of her or his shortages u can accept as long acknowledge between both of u. While, when unconfortable mood comes, no matter what they do, crazy u will be. that's person. we cann't change others. why not accept and adapt them try our best. agree with up-stair, none perfect man. so criticise ourselves on the opposite side. relax and be happy!

IMNONARCISSUS

Fetch your spoon and let's share it together.

mei2011

It is really for some of us say no to the familiar people like the relatives or the friends, maybe you can express it by some other ways, but as me , i do not know how to express...I am so straight at all.

sebrina

in my opinion , you just try to say "no"in circumbendibus, let it konw you care that

walliswu

Do yourself! No matter what other people,you are you!