Two sides of a person

小莫

I have once read a novel. One character in the novel is very weird: at work he is cold-blooded while at home he is very friendly and passionate. I think this is not a bad choice: life may not be perfect, so we shouldn't be too strict towards it and require it too be excellent in all aspects. What do you think?

boostbob

yes, it's different between job and privacy.

chengzi89

if you consider your colleagues as your friends,you may have some problems.I think he is just trying to be professional

Mamba

I'd rather try to be friendly to others as possible as i can,meanwhile,I feel it's unworthwhile to care about anyone who we don't like so much or who doesn't deserve our love.

小莫

Mamba: I'd rather try to be friendly to others as possible as i can,meanwhile,I feel it's unworthwhile to care about anyone who we don't like so much or who

I think being nice is good most of the time. Yeah, but sometimes we need to show our temper to protect us.

小莫

boostbob: yes, it's different between job and privacy.

Yes, it is. People can't be too emotional or sensitive at work. Instead, people should behave rationally.

小莫

chengzi89: if you consider your colleagues as your friends,you may have some problems.I think he is just trying to be professional

Yes. Just partners at work.