Expectation and disappointment ?

mindy

The more you have expected, the more you'll be disappoined. Do you agree ? What's your opinion ?  

eternal

well, it depends on what the matter is.

if it's something u can control and can be achieved by your own effort, the theory may not work. on the contrary, the more u expected before, the more u would gain later after your effort. because the expectations will give u power to ignore the  difficulties along the way to your goal.

however, it's something u cannot decide ,i think u would feel down after expecting that much. for instance, loving matter ,in a way u can truly gain what u  have expected only by your effort.

eternal

sugar1989

I can not agree more!I have the experience that I assumed and kept thingking how wonderful it would be. But only after it take place did I found how hard it is for me to accept the result!

Lizzyjiang

It is best that we work hardest while expect least.

LunaDEJ

yes i agree.take me as an illustration,the more i ever expected or the more i ever hoped,the less i finally got and the more disappointment i accepted.it seems that Lord is so glad to torture us.what we want will never come but quite the conrary ,what we resent can always find us and we are unable to get rid of them.i want to acheive a lot of goals and dreams,but i never meet the optimum opportunities or a good luck to do so.i am even precluded from doing what i hope,let alone realizing them..    this is our fate..nothing can be what we want unless we pay a lot ,or we can just see others get in the LUCKY BUS and we will never make it

mickael

To my mind, it is definitely correct. There is an equation, customer satisfaction equals service quality minus customer expectation. If the reality can not satify you, meanwhile, you have high expectation, you will be very disappointed inevitably due to your high expectaion. Consequently, sometimes adjustment in your expectation, will provide helps for your emotion regulation.

In effect, people are always dissatisfied with the life, with the current situation. If they are satified, that's temporary.
Since when the reality meet your expectation, you will be satified. whereas  you accustomed your new situation, you will have a new demand. That means you need a new result to meet your new expectation, and that will be a circulation, you will never be satisfied.

langtuteng

eternal: well, it depends on what the matter is.

if it's something u can control and can be achieved by your own effort, the theory may not work. on the contr

You have advisable ideas!

aaroncarter63

Two points:
First: If you continue to do your best to abtain the aim, you will be a winner.
Second: If you do your whole life endeavourwhereas  not to  estiblish your aim,this state is your worst circumstance.

xajie

It is true.All of them to own the same theory.